What is wrong with you? What is your problem? You're being ridiculous! Calm down!
As a kid, I was no stranger to these kinds of sentiments. Overly sensitive and highly-emotional, outbursts were a knee-jerk reaction with which I was quite familiar.
#turkeystuffed #pickyeaters #toomanyleftovers How do you describe the problems you are facing? I've noticed that the more I explain my "problems" without judging myself or others - the more open I am to new and creative solutions. Solutions I may NEVER have noticed had I not changed my point of view. Mastering the perspective-shift is a crucial part of conscious, non-punitive, non-permissive parenting.
Do you feel like you try to be empathetic and yet your child's behavior doesn't change?
Are you in the habit of describing the conflict with your child by using words such as, defiant, disrespectful, rude, cranky, instigator, trouble-maker, or manipulative?